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22 Nov Posted by in Blog | 14 comments

How To Attract Your Ideal Clients… & Spouse!

When one walks down the road of personal development your awareness of how to improve your life – all on levels – goes through the roof.  And, you can never be to sure of the direction it will lead you in…

Well, in my case, it lead me to leave my beach resort lifestyle on the Gold Coast in Australia, to sunny London, back in 2006.

Ever since I committed to mastering business and other areas of my life, I’ve applied many different techniques and strategies to overcome limiting beliefs and accelerate my results.  Some have worked well, others not so well…

There’s one technique that I wanted to share with you today – which is something that I’m sure you’re already aware of…  However, I’d like to remind you of it’s ENORMOUS power.

And, this is the same technique I used to attract my soon-to-be wife.

About a year before I met Alma, I decided to write out a list of ALL the qualities of my ideal picture-perfect-woman.  Now, I’m sure you can guess what some of the qualities were… but by the end of it I had 4 pages of bullet points!

Sure enough, 10 months later and another continent away I found myself meeting a woman who ticked the box of every-single quality on my list!

Funny thing is though…  Before I met her, I typically went for small petite women.  But that was the only quality I left off the list – and good thing to as otherwise I may not have attracted my 6 foot glam-azon beauty :)

Now, I share this story with you as this is the same technique I’ve used many times whether it be in sales or business or simply finding the keys when they’re lost.

The mind is such a powerful tool and your unconscious mind has the potential to create outcomes in the future – if you direct it in the right way!

Simply paint a picture in your mind’s eye of the outcome you’re looking for.  Describe it in detail, list it out and then hold that image in your mind and you’ll be amazed at what you’ll achieve.

So before your next sales presentation, follow this process and before it starts hold an image of the end outcome being reached (ie. you holding the signed sales form in your hand, or seeing the X amount in your bank account).

And, as I can attest to, it can even help you find the partner of your dreams!

Best of luck with this technique and I’d love to know how you go with it.  Or, if you have proven to work this before, leave a comment below and share your insights.

I’ve got to head off now as I’m off to get married now :)

  1. Chris11-23-11

    Great news Mike and really looking forward to the wedding. Re visualising what you want, you are so right. It is really important to focus on what needs to be done to make that a reality. The ole saying ‘you can’t hit a target you can’t see’ so getting you in the right frame of mind is a powerful start.

    Looking forward to 2012.

    Chris :-)

    • admin01-12-12

      We rocked it in SA my man! Thanks for being part of it all!!!

  2. Angus MacLennan11-23-11

    Mike

    Great technique – its exactly what I did to meet the woman of my dreams. Six months before I met Hannah I created my list and a vivid mental image – I left age off my list which is a good thing or I may not have ended up in the perfect relationship :-) . I couldn’t be happier.

    I also use the same technique in business and it has helped me have the most successful year my business has ever had – and in a recession too!

    Have a great time in SA and an awesome wedding.

    Thanks for sharing this great technique.

    Angus MacLennan

    • admin01-12-12

      Congrats Angus! Sounds like things are rocking for you in both your personal and professional career. Well done!
      Look forward to catching up again, hopefully that’s soon
      M

  3. Rob Bateman11-23-11

    Hi Mike,
    great email.
    I used to use this method before playing a game of basketball. Before leaving home I would watch one of my many Michael Jordan DVDs and get motivated but also use the visualisation to make myself play better. (Never as good as Michael Jordan!!!!!!)
    I hadn’t really considered useing it in the business environment though. Will be using it immediately.
    Have a great wedding. I hope everyhing goes to plan and what doesn’t go to plan turns out better anyway.

    • admin01-12-12

      Hey Rob,
      Yeah, it’s a powerful trick of the trade ;) Hope it works it’s magic with you as well.
      Look forward to hearing how things are progressing for you!
      M

  4. Moira11-23-11

    It couldn’t happen to a nicer guy. Thank you for being committed to your own success and to the success of others. I wish you every happiness for now and the future Mike and Alma and cant wait to see what magic you conjure up in 2012.
    Moira
    Aroha mai, Aroha atu
    Love towards us, love going out from us.

    • admin01-12-12

      Thanks Moira. Are we ever going to meet again :) I hope it’s soon!
      Thanks for the kind words
      M x

  5. Debbie Evran11-23-11

    Mike, thanks for the reminder, amazing how we forget the things we already know!

    Also big congrats and best wishes for your BIG DAY.

    As Roger H would say ‘Make Magic’ ;-)

    Best regards
    Debbie

    • admin01-12-12

      Make Magic we did Debbie. Hope you’re well! x

  6. BILGEHAN11-23-11

    First of all big Congrats and be always happy :)
    Thanks for sharing this your wonderfull story and leading us how to manage it in our busy life.
    Have a great ceremony.
    Cheers,
    Bilgehan

    • admin01-12-12

      Hi Bilgehan,
      Thanks for the msg. The ceremony was AMAZING! I’m just about to post another blog now with pics.
      Glad you enjoyed
      M

  7. Cicci11-24-11

    I was first encouraged by Brain Tracy to write out my plans, in detail and all the things I wrote down can to pass. It even mended my marriage.

    • admin01-12-12

      Nice Cicci! Creating our ideal life-style has always been in our control, thanks for sharing!

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